HOW TO MEDITATE
How to Meditate As a Beginner
By Tergar Meditation Community Team • 5 min read
Have you heard about the benefits of meditation and would like to give it a try, but aren’t sure how to begin? We’ve got you covered! It’s easier than you might think. As renowned meditation teacher Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche says, meditation, for beginners and seasoned practitioners alike, is all about awareness, which is already with you all the time.
Most people are mistaken about what mindfulness meditation is. They assume you have to empty your mind of thought, or force yourself to feel peaceful and calm. So the usual reaction is, “Maybe someone can do that, but for me, it’s impossible!” But actually, that is a big misunderstanding.
What mindfulness meditation is really about is awareness of whatever may be happening at any moment. That means anything at all, from the sensation of your stomach rumbling with hunger to the sound of a plane passing by overhead. You don’t have to try to change anything about the experience — even if what you’re aware of is that you feel bored or sleepy! As long as you have awareness, and gently return to it whenever you drift off into distraction, you are meditating.
It helps to have some support — something you can keep returning the attention to during the meditation session. Often referred to as an “object of awareness,” this can be anything you perceive with the senses, or even thoughts and emotions. For now, we’ll try it using the breath. Once you see how it works, you can begin to meditate with any other “object” in the same way.
Begin the meditation session by taking a stable and comfortable posture, which imparts a sense of dignified, uplifted ease. The simplest way is just sit upright in a chair, or cross-legged on a cushion on the floor. Let your spine be loosely straight, and let your hands rest lightly on top of your legs or in your lap.
Now ask yourself, am I breathing right now? If the answer is yes, good! If the answer is no, also good! Believe it or not, just knowing the answer means you experienced awareness — the essence of meditation. You became aware of your breath in that moment — and since meditation is fundamentally about awareness– you were doing breathing meditation. Congratulations!
“When you transform your mind, everything you experience is transformed.”
– Mingyur Rinpoche –
Even though it is so simple, you’ll quickly discover that you can’t stay aware of your breathing for long. In fact, after just two or three breaths, you’re likely to forget about your breathing and wander off into thoughts, memories, plans, self-evaluation, and so on.
When this happens, it’s okay! It’s totally normal. In fact, it’s unavoidable! So what to do? Nothing needs to be done. As soon as you notice, “Oh yeah! I’m supposed to be aware that I’m breathing,” you have already come back to awareness.
The idea is not to struggle to see how long you can stay in awareness, but rather to simply keep returning to the awareness of breathing. You can remember this with the phrase “short times, many times.” For the duration of the session, just allow yourself to come back like this again and again. It will look something like this: aware, forget, aware, forget, aware.
When you find yourself struggling to keep your mind on your breathing, remember that the breath is just a support to remind you that you have awareness. Be confident that as long as you are present with whatever you’re experiencing — even if it seems to be nothing but confusion — that itself is meditation, and so you are doing just fine. If you continue meditating in this way, over time you will find that your mind is naturally becoming more calm, fresh, and vibrant.
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